Something to ponder

How do you kno if someone is right for you..?

The answer is you dont know. That is why you have to explore and take that risk.

But what is for sure .....is that the right person for you is someone who loves you the way you are...the person you dont have change at all or want to change.

Wurr the person dosnt feel responsible for you and can trust that you are goin to be what you claim you are, what you project you are, and vise versa.







Another thing people dont seem ta grasp...
In a relationship with ..lets say your dog, you can have a bad moment. For whatever reason, it happens to be n accident, bad day at work, or whatever. You come home, and the dog is there barking at you, tail waggin, lookin for your attention. You dont feel like playing with the dog, but the dog is there. The dog will not feel hurt that u dont wanna play. Once the dog celebrates ur arrival and finds that u dont wanna play, the dog goes play by itself. The dog dosnt stay there to insist you to be happy.

Sometimes You can feel more support from ur dog then from a partner who wants ta make u happy. If you dont feel like being happy, and u only want to be quiet, its nothing personal. It has nothing to do with ur partner. Perhaps you have a problem and u need ta be quiet. But silence can cause ur partner to make a lot of assumptions: "what did i do now? iTS BECAUSE OF ME." It has nothing to do with your partner;its nothing personal. Left alone, the tension will go away, and you will return to happiness.